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Time Flies When You’re Having Fun

Posted October 24, 2012 by pehl

I received a wonderful surprise just the other day – evening, actually.  I had completed my preparations for the new week on Sunday evening and was lazing about when my phone chimed indicating a new email in my ECPT account.  I do my best not to attend to work related issues on the weekends, but I don’t often succeed.  This time my lack of discipline was rewarded with the previously mentioned surprise – an email from a former client who left our practice about 8 years ago when they moved out of town.  I truly do love it when “our kids” come back to us.  Robin and I often wonder, “…what has become of so-and-so.  Let’s see, he/she would be…what? 12 – no 15 years old by now!  Wow, time flies when you’re having fun!”

I asked the sender, J. permission to post her email as I felt it would provide hope and encouragement to those of you who are just beginning “the journey.”  It’s a long road ahead for many of you, with much hard work and often some heartache and tears.  But it also includes the joy of growth and independence gained.  In response to my request J. wrote back, “I’d be honored to help others.”  So here it is:

Do you remember helping a little three-year-old boy, S. and his family 9 years ago?

We moved from Vancouver to Southern California after we’d worked with you both for about 18 months.  Robin started with casting S. for toe walking after he’d had Botox injections in his legs.  She provided PT to address S’s toe walking.  Then Elizabeth added OT and introduced us to Sensory Integration Therapy.  Dr. Willis helped with the AD/HD and sleep issues….

You started us on a very long journey.  We knew so little at the time and all the information was overwhelming.  Not only did you provide therapy for S., you cared about the mental health of Mom and Dad too.  You both were saviors for us at this time.

Fast forward many years…..S. is in sixth grade now.  At age 5 he went thru several intense neurological evaluations and we learned that the ‘something more’ was Autistic Spectrum Disorder, specifically Asperger’s.  We went thru school district evaluations and S. has had an IEP since Kindergarten.  He has always been mainstreamed but with a one-on-one aide.  After all the hard work and thanks to a wonderful support team, S. is now in the Gifted and Advanced class, completely independent.  There are still challenges, but he has made amazing progress.

There was more, but in an attempt to not be self-aggrandizing I edited out the parts that were the most touching to Robin and myself.  My point for posting it in the first place is to provide a sense of the possibilities that lie ahead.  I am honored to have been trusted with this young man’s care, and to have had the opportunity to work as a team member with his parents and I know this is true for Robin also.  We learn from each child we touch and each family we teach, which is what keeps our work exciting and new.  It’s true that time does fly when you’re having fun.

Blessings to all of you as you walk your path, Elizabeth